For All the Precious Woman Out there

“Beauty and Goodness do not define by your appearances. Stand up and use your differences shines through you!”

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Image result for god created a world of diversity not to separate usI am writing this piece of article as an encouragement to my self of who I am. Also, I would like to dedicate this to all the beautiful daughter of CHRIST who have been through all kinds of negative impact by this world. I had had introduce the fear that I have within myself by a post “It’s OK not to be OK” last year when I first realized and would be able to see my natural beauty made my God. I have learnt there’s nothing wrong just to be different from others. Everyone on this earth had nothing in common in each other or share the same genetic. We are one of a kind designed by the creator of this universe.

I am struggle dealing with worthiness of life. My body image becomes one of the weakness I have encountered. I am afraid that my size would be the barrier of any kinds of communication and misunderstanding. I am worried that I won’t be accepted by the majority because I have different kinds of taste of food, habit and lifestyles. I have got to go by own way of interests. As pretending to be someone else, it doesn’t last long. There is a time that you will show the true you. Therefore, I am not in the comfort zone of copying other.

It happened last week when I had to smile and accepted all kinds of word teasing me that I am A Fat Girl. When I reached my hand to get the food, they cut by saying you could not eat because you are fat. When I went to bed early, they said no wonder  I am Fat because I slept a lot. When I ate sweet, they said fat people always love sweet things. There is no way that you can lose even a pound. I would like to ask you what do you feel if people at the dining table saying that you are fat and you should not eat? I was deeply thank that they care about me and my size.

However, what kind of characteristic are these? Are these the model to help girl grow independent and love themselves as who they are? Are teasing the good ways to help people lose weight? Are theses voice rebuking you as a person who is unique and loved by God? I wonder how do they see fat people? What do their heart say about being fat and being judge? What’s the definition of beautiful girl? How do they find beauty in themselves? by heart  or body?

I am confront to believe my family when people say I am beautiful when other say I am not. I started to be shaken by the voices of insecurities and felt like I am like the Clown Fish which everyone laugh at you even you are not funny (Just because I am a clown fish). Please stop judging woman by their look.

“Beauty and Goodness do not define by your appearances. Stand up and use your differences shines through you!”

Dear women,

Let’s believe of God says who you are. Whatever people says about you is not true. God says you are beautiful (Psalm 45:11) and unique (Psalm 139:13) so stop afraid of being who you are. You are loved (Jer.31:13) and Special (Eph:2:10) because you are created with purpose (Jer.29:11). You are lovely (Dan.12:3) and cared for (Eph:3:17, 18, 18). You are precious because you are his masterpiece (1-Cor.6:20). You are strong (Ps.18:35) and important to him (1-Pet2:9). You are forgiven (Ps103:12) so do not live in your past and sin. You are a new creation (2-Cor.5:17) because you are born again by the grace of God. You are his children so you are protected (Ps.121:3) and chosen as his family (Eph.2:19). You are empowered (Phil.4:13)and you are his(Is43:1).

With God’s Love,

Minear

 

Trust in Him

I will start my new job on the second of May. It is the same date last year that God allowed me to be a teacher for a year. Now, he brought me from a school to another place. 

To begin with, I would like to say thanks to my loving father (Jesus). I now believe that he always have something better for me. This happen is not because I have an ability to get it. I know that things happen for a reason and there is only him that can cause all things to happen. This achievement is the part of all of your prayer. I would like to thank my spiritual parent, my pastor, and my brother and sister in Christ who always there for me when I feel like there is no one. 

It’s been such a great time being with kids, laughing and playing together. Praise the Lord and I’m thankful for putting me in a place where we work as a family.

In the department where my head teacher is a godly woman, a good mother, a good sister, and a best friend to me.

I’m thankful for bringing me good friends and memorable students. There were so many tough times that I complained to you and asked you to bring me out from this loving place just to fulfill my fleshy desired. I bet you might ever had this kind of feeling when you are no longer in love with your work but just want to do it because you have no any other. I admit I am the one who felt that but remember that when you are not happy with something or someone just pray. Pray for the Lord to help you understand thing better and help them to understand you too. Ask the Lord to give you love to love. I always speak Colossians 3:23 (Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men) to myself when I feel no love inside me to do my job. It helps me to get my mind back on him, to see things further and do things better. 

Keep Clam, Trust the Lord

Blessings

Minear

His Love Win Everything

Father, I am thankful that you opened my eyes and my heart to see your greatest love. Thank you for allowing me to get free from my offense, my mood swings, and my pain I used to have. I am sorry for not understanding about your love and blame those I love for hurting me. I’m sorry for just think of myself better than the other. I’m sorry to those I have hurt them. 

I have lived under the pressure of mood swings and the pain that I tried to buried it down.  The reason that bring  me down to that temptation is  because I don’t secure myself with God’s word. I found out that It was because I did not love God as he loves me. If I truly love him from all my heart, I would keep his words but I did not. That’s why we should always pray for God to help us Love him more and more.

John 14:23-24-If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My father father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home in him. He who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own;they belong to the Father who sent me.

God showed me through Proverbs 3:3-6 about the benefits of keeping his words.

Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. The you will win favor and a good name is the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not for your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

When God’s words are  not in me, Satan got into the relationship between me and my heavenly father. I listened to the voice of Satan telling me that I just cannot forgive my friends because they ask for apologize. He (Satan) reminded me of my past experienced, took out the bad time of mine, forced me to return to the darkest season of my life. Satan told me to fight back for what I should deserve. The voice of Satan build up the insecurity of Love, the doubtful and misunderstanding, the lie of forgiveness, the fear of trust, and the important of self-satisfaction. 

Romans  8:28-And all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

When  Satan tries to attack us, meditates on God’s word to get our self on the track. When it’s hard to forgive someone, reminding yourself of

 1 Peter 4:8- Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

 If I love my friends deeply  as I love myself, I won’t remember their mistakes because love erase all the wrongs.

John 15:12 Love each other as I have loved you.

I will forgive them just Christ forgave me; I will love them as we all receive the Love from God.

Ephesians 4:32-Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgive each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

No love can compare to God’s Love.We are here in the world of love, under the grace of God and live by the breath of life; Give no place for hatred but Love one another as one family in Christ. 

The final greetings from Apostle Paul in Ephesians 6:23-24 is the great message to end this post.

Peace to the brothers, and love with faith form God the Father and The Lord Jesus Christ. Grace to all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with an undying love.

May God bless you !